Wednesday, 9 June 2010

How To Make My Ex-Boyfriend Want Me Back

At its best, romantic love between two people is one part passion, one part intimacy and one part mutual respect. Knowing the secret of this formula will come in handy when you find yourself asking, "How to make my ex-boyfriend want me back?"

In general, men approach a relationship from the perspective of passion, while women tend to approach from the perspective of intimacy. When things go right, both partners in the relationship experience all three: passion, intimacy and a developing sense of mutual respect.

Finding yourself as you are now, with your ex-boyfriend no longer in your day-to-day life, might make you feel sad or lonely. You probably feel like you miss him and just need him back in your arms again. Of course, these are natural feelings that anybody might have if they have lost the love of their life - or at least a very special romantic interest.

Unfortunately, sad and lonely feelings by themselves are not enough to get your ex-boyfriend back. In fact, showing him only sadness and despair might drive him further way.

In reality, the only real way back into his heart is to understand the important concoction of passion, intimacy and respect that I mentioned above. It is only through one or more of these "doors" that you can re-kindle the love that the two of you shared at one time.

It is this one secret that you need to learn: anything worth doing right is worth educating oneself about. Think about it this way: just how important is it to you that you rekindle your love with your ex-boyfriend? Is this just a passing fancy or is this true love that is worth fighting for? Only you can answer that question. If that answer is indeed true love, you will need to master the proven techniques that can get him back into your life

How To Make My Ex-Boyfriend Want Me Back

At its best, romantic love between two people is one part passion, one part intimacy and one part mutual respect. Knowing the secret of this formula will come in handy when you find yourself asking, "How to make my ex-boyfriend want me back?"

In general, men approach a relationship from the perspective of passion, while women tend to approach from the perspective of intimacy. When things go right, both partners in the relationship experience all three: passion, intimacy and a developing sense of mutual respect.

Finding yourself as you are now, with your ex-boyfriend no longer in your day-to-day life, might make you feel sad or lonely. You probably feel like you miss him and just need him back in your arms again. Of course, these are natural feelings that anybody might have if they have lost the love of their life - or at least a very special romantic interest.

Unfortunately, sad and lonely feelings by themselves are not enough to get your ex-boyfriend back. In fact, showing him only sadness and despair might drive him further way.

In reality, the only real way back into his heart is to understand the important concoction of passion, intimacy and respect that I mentioned above. It is only through one or more of these "doors" that you can re-kindle the love that the two of you shared at one time.

It is this one secret that you need to learn: anything worth doing right is worth educating oneself about. Think about it this way: just how important is it to you that you rekindle your love with your ex-boyfriend? Is this just a passing fancy or is this true love that is worth fighting for? Only you can answer that question. If that answer is indeed true love, you will need to master the proven techniques that can get him back into your life

To illustrate briefly what I mean, come on a little mental journey with me for a moment. Close your eyes and picture yourself in your mind's eye. Imagine yourself feeling sad and lonely and forlorn. You just want your ex-boyfriend back, after all! Now, imagine you are in this lonely state of mind and are approaching his home and knocking on his door. He opens the door and is surprised to see you. He looks into your eyes and sees only a desperate, lonely ex-girlfriend. How attracted does he feel toward you at this moment? Maybe a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10?

Now, imagine yourself (again in your mind's eye) approaching your ex's home. You are dressed in your sexiest clothes. Your make-up and hair are looking great. You feel clean and in the best shape of your life. You feel the love in your heart that you have for your ex-boyfriend. You approach his door. He opens the door. What does he see? A sexy, confident and loving ex-girlfriend peering into his eyes, that's what. How about now - how attracted does he feel to you? About an 11, right?

From this little exercise, you can see how much of a difference your mental attitude and approach make to how he will respond to your approaching him to get back together.

The techniques that will really work in getting your ex-boyfriend back into your life are those that can show you how to approach your ex through the right emotional "doorway," increasing your chances of getting back into his arms 10 or even 100-fold over other approaches. 


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